Bonjour my darlings !
Happy monday... weekend is over as usual so fast sighhhh.
Monday is here and the sun is out so i only needed 2 coffee lol ;)
How was ur weekend? Did u have fun? I hope u spent it with people u love <3
Yesterday and today i saw a new trend on twitter #thingsfatpeoplearetold .
Since being a big girl myself i follow a lot of interesting people on twitter. From bigsized fashion blogger to Fatacceptance fighters. It´s very interesting and helpful. Women need to accept their body as they are.
And society needs to accept "fat" people. It´s very hard growing up big and being a fat adult.
Unneccesary making it harder for all of us. I don´t tell u what to wear or how to be! ur gay? fine.
ur working on getting or being thin? fine. whatever makes u happy. and if i dont complain about me being unhappy with the way i am ... then don´t tell me i should be!!!
i have a good selfconfidence but lots of big girls dont own that and get hurt a lot... i wanna share some tweets with u .....
The #thingsfatpeoplearetold hash tag is still tearing it up over at Twitter with over 1,400 tweets and retweets as of this writing. I'm so grateful for the courage its taken so many people to share what are often very raw experiences with entitled fat stigmatization. To be clear, some of this can be trigging given how brutally honest the experiences are, but I want to share some of the Tweets here. I can't stress enough that these are just some of what people are sharing. Follow#thingsfatpeoplearetold to know you really aren't alone or to learn what fat people are really experiencing.
- Your body sends a bad message to your children. #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- "no one will ever love you." actual #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- Fat people are stupid. If they were smart, they wouldn't be fat. #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- Telling anyone that it's ok to be fat makes you personally responsible for their death #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- You have such a pretty face... #thingsfatpeoplearetold ( oh thats a classic one!!)
- They probably didn't give you a promotion because you might not fast enough to do the job. #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- "You're not fat!" (Meaning: I know & like you, you're not like those *other* lazy smelly greedy fat people.) #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- But have you really, really TRIED to lose weight? #thingsfatpeoplearetold
- In the back of an ambulance, by a police officer: "Who would rape you?" #thingsfatpeoplearetold
just a few examples takes from red3.blogspot ... there are more and feel welcomed to go there and take a look. take a loot into a fat persons life. what he/she has to deal with on a daily basis.
share some love my darlings .. not hate! accept eachother ... its important!
with love, Ines
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