this topic has triggered many emotions in you... thanks for all the messages and mails i got... i am so glad that those who are affected know that there are people out there who care...
not like school boards who like to sweep the matters under the rug... counting on the familys being quiet cause they dont want to bring more stress to the abused kids...
but what hurts them more? being quiet and wait till it goes away? or be loud and fight for your child!
so i have a friend in vienna who was sexually abused by her father many years... she grew up like that... she got married... had kids... she forgot... until the day her 3rd child, a daughter, was crying when her grandfather held her... she didnt want to be on his lap...
it all came back to her... the abuse...she went down to the cellar and hide there... wasnt speaking to nobody for weeks... she knew he molested her oldest daughter, who is now married to a man in a wheel chair who is not able to make love to a woman... i wonder why she chose him?
her other daughter never got counseling... cause her own counselor told her not to and to wait till she is ready to? HELLO? how ready can u be?
she, herself has turned towards women... she leads a lesbian lifestyle now
she tries so hard to cope with all this but i told her on many occasions to help her daughter...
maybe i am wrong... i am not a specialist...but i feel u need to help...
dont ignore it... dont be ashamed... u have done nothing wrong...its society who failed you... being quiet...be strong for your child...
try talking to your friends... i am sure they will support u all the way...
try the media... your local media... inform them!... dont use his name... he might end up suing you... yes that can happen in this sick world... get the story out there... get the people who are in charge to react!
dont be afraid of setbacks... people who wont believe you... negative reactions.. always think of your childs face!... they dont know how to fight... fight for them!
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